No. 498 "Why We Grow Tired So Easily" 2026 09 06
By Barnabas ChoiPosted 09/05/2026
No. 498 — "Why We Grow Tired So Easily" 2026 09 06 "I'm just exhausted these days." It's a phrase we hear constantly now — from students, from working professionals, from parents, even from pastors. And it isn't only physical tiredness. What wears us out first is the pressure to understand everything, control everything, and fix everything before it's too late. We tend to believe that if our circumstances changed, the exhaustion would lift. We imagine that a vacation would restore us, that a new job would ease the weight, that a little more financial security would finally bring peace. But even when life's conditions improve, that deep, quiet fatigue often remains. Proverbs 30 points us to a different explanation. Let's look at Proverbs 30:1–6. Agur, the wise man of this passage, doesn't dress himself up. He speaks with striking honesty: "Surely I am more stupid than any man, and I do not have the understanding of a man" (Proverbs 30:2). But this confession doesn't end in despair. In the very next breath, he declares, "Every word of God is pure" (Proverbs 30:5). The Hebrew word translated "pure" describes metal that has been refined until every impurity is burned away. Agur placed no confidence in his own wisdom — but he trusted God's word completely, without reservation. That trust became the turning point that lifted him out of his exhaustion. What's worth noticing here is that Agur's confession of ignorance and his confidence in God's word aren't two separate moments — they happen in the same breath. "I do not know" and "God's word is flawless" are spoken almost as one sentence. The place where he admitted his limits was the very place he took hold of God's word. Isaiah declares the same truth in different words: "The grass withers, the flower fades, but the word of our God stands forever" (Isaiah 40:8). Human opinions and judgments shift with circumstance, but God's word stands unmoved across every generation and every situation. So Agur's shift wasn't merely a psychological coping mechanism — it was a deeply reasonable choice to anchor himself to something unchanging. He moved the weight of his life off something that shakes, and onto something that doesn't. This is exactly why we grow tired so easily too. We can't tolerate not knowing, and when we try to carry everything ourselves, we collapse under our own weight. God never called us to have all the answers. He called us to trust Him. Jesus said the same thing: "Come to Me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28). He didn't say, "Try harder." He said, "Come and rest." Here's one practical step for today. Before you pick up your phone in the morning, read Proverbs 30:5 out loud first. Then pray something simple: "Lord, don't let me try to have all the answers today. Let me hold on to Your word instead." One small habit like this can shift the weight of your day — off your own shoulders, and onto the word of God. Questions to consider: What am I exhausted right now because I can't solve it myself? What am I still gripping tightly, on my own, instead of trusting God with it?
